So my sister and her husband decided to make this joint facebook account. Now you have to keep in mind that this is the man she married after knowing him for only three months and despite my begging and pleading that she take some time to get to know this person before becoming legally and emotionally bonded to this guy. I told her that I wasn’t the only one who really didn’t know him so I couldn’t make a determination. I don’t think I ever had a good vibe out of this person and unfortunately I think I was correct. I won’t go into the rumors spread of any of the other nonsense that I heard from more than one person, but I will say the following…
After about a month of them being married, I noticed that my sister’s facebook page was gone. I figured he had thrown a fit or made a big deal about someone on her facebook talking to her. I can understand that to a small degree, but making her remove her entire profile was just the stupidest gesture of control that I think I’ve ever seen since ventriloquists started putting their hands up the asses of puppets. A month or so passes and I notice all of a sudden that there is someone requesting my friendship that I had never seen before. No last name, but just a combination of their two first names. It was the joint facebook or what I like to call “the epitome of not trusting the person you’re with with an online presence”.
Occasionally I’ll see this two head abomination of trust make a post or say something and I’m left wondering.. Who’s doing the typing? What happened to my sister that before this was her own person. Who performed this operation that merged two human beings into one creature?! I now see that its facebook status goes from “in a relationship” or “it’s complicated”. All I can think is that I hope that my sister makes the right choice and leaves this guy. From what I’ve seen, heard, and gathered he is a complete asshole that I want to have nothing to do with. He drinks too much and when he does, he becomes violent. I have told my sister that if anything ever happens, I have a futon with her name on it and she would have a safe place to stay. I doubt I have seen the last of this guy and honestly I pray that she finds her way to a better relationship and learns the lesson that a “gut feeling” that you’re dating the person of your dreams is never an excuse to marry someone you haven’t known that long.
Here’s an image I found that sums up my post perfectly..